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Placing an Ad:
When placing an ad it's best to think about what kind of ad you would reply
to yourself. Good grammar and spelling count. Include as much detail as
you can such as age, your body type, your sexuality, your likes and your
dislikes, your area, and if possible a photograph of yourself. When you
receive a reply, you should always answer, even if only to say "no thanks".
Don't forget to be honest. Honesty in your description of yourself and what
you really want. Honesty is prized and there is nothing to gain from being
Replying to the Ad:
When replying to an ad, remember that most people want to know the details
as listed above, but beware of photo collectors. Most swingers are NOT interested
in genital shots but a full length picture showing your face would satisfy
most swinging couples. DO NOT DISCLOSE your telephone number until you are
satisfied that you would like to meet the advertising swinger.
Most first meetings take place with a simple phone call. Speaking to all
interested parties drastically reduces the chance of a "no show" or the
chance of "incompatibility". Unless you are seeking a one night
stand, make sure that sexual contact will only happen if all swingers are
happy with the situation. Sometimes, it's good to meet up for drinks for
the first meeting, then arrange another date if all agree. After all, how
many people really get to have sex on their first date? Always meet where
there are other people present. Do not meet with other swingers too near
your home. The last thing you want is to explain to Aunt Bridget why you
were sitting on a strange man's lap….
If you have met the interested party via phone and finally meet the swinging
single or swingling couple but thay are not to your liking, TELL THEM, do
not continue with the date as it it will only lead to hurt feelings. Simply
saying "Nice to have met you, but unforyunately you are not my / our
type" will do. This saves a lot of time and you would be surprised at how
well people will take it.
Beware of drugs and alcohol. Nobody
wants to swing with people who can't stand up and you guys know the consequences
of too much alcohol.
Set Ground Rules:
When all have agreed to have a swinging
session, it is important to set limits. At the very least, everyone should
agree that if one person in the swinger's group feels uncomfortable at any
time during the session, they should be able to stop the action without
any bad feelings in the group.
Respect peoples privacy. What goes on in the company of swinging singles,
swinging couples or swingingers in general is not anyone elses business.
If you really want to share your experience with others, you should omit
or change names and dates. Think about it, would you like others to tell
their friends about your swinger relationship? You never know…….
Swinging is fun, and a lot of people experience the time of their life swinging.
You can fulfill deep erotic sexual fantasy in a safe and loving way. Life
is waiting.... Good luck!